Have you ever loved a song only to find out the songs
meaning is completely different to what you thought? This has bought many
brides & grooms undone when picking songs for their favourite day, what may
seem like a love song on the surface may actually be a breakup song or
something a lot more deep or sinister, so song choice is critical especially
for those token moments such as the wedding waltz or cutting of the cake. Songs
have special meanings to each individual so it’s hard to tell a client they may
need to re-think their choice because the songs intention or message however
one could argue that the song should be enjoyed for what it is without having
to deconstruct what it actually means. But when your connecting a song to an
life event (wedding, party or funeral) then it’s probably best to get it right
as it will leave a lasting impression.
Love songs can masquerade in many forms, whether it’s being
truly in love to the exact opposite falling out of love, jealousy, breaking up
or moving on etc so it can be hard to tell what is truly being said especially
when you’re caught up in the mood of the music itself. For example did you know
Ed Sheerans song “give me love” is about a relationship that fell apart and you're
asking for it to be put back together wanting a second chance, you wouldn’t
know it when listening to the music and the title of the song.
Song meanings are very literal, cryptic, full of innuendo
and metaphors ,even ambiguous and can take a bit of digging to find out the
real meaning. They can also be open to interpretation especially if the artist
isn’t forthcoming to the songs initial meaning.
Sam Smith (Stay with
me) – Is about dealing with the aspects of loneliness.
Taylor Swift (You
belong to me) – Wanting another girls’ man because they are bad for each
other.
Boyz 2 Men (End of
the road) – Cliche relationship breakup song
Ed Sheeran (Lego
House)- Lego is a metaphor for a relationship, picking up the pieces from
an old relationship and starting a new one.
Robbie Williams
(Angels)- About being looked after in the current life by loved ones who
have passed on.
Maroon 5 (She will be
loved) – Song is about having an secret affair
Cyndi Lauper (Time
after Time) – The ultimate heartache song, changing together but growing
apart over time and moving on after a long term relationship but knowing the
love is still mutual.
Bruno Mars (Marry
You) – Humorous yet reckless take on marriage , think vegas, alcohol ,the
hangover , trashy wedding and plenty of regret in the morning, you get the picture.
If you want a song for your special day and your unsure and
need some clarification have a look at these websites as they will tell you
what the song is about and the story behind them.
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